most of my friends tak berape nak faham knp aku nak sgt kahwin awal. kalau blh as soon aku habis diploma di Uitm ni. most of them kate that marriage blh membantutkan pembelajaran&&penbentukkan future/carrier aku nanti. &&most of them jugak kate that marriage is not as easy at it sounds. yeah,tak di nafikan. but bkn selalu that seorang teenager yg byk buat silap dlm hidup nak berkahwin dgn relanye. instead of kene tangkap basah or kahwin dgn paksanggup caused of unwanted pregnancy. and yeah,maybe ramai yg berpendapat that kalau tak nak kene kahwin segera tu then tak payah la buat maksiat right? theres a flaw bout that statement ladies&gentlement :) saye hanye lah seorang manusia biase mcm kamu semua yg mempunyai nafsu&setan merata rata menghasut aku :P jgn slh faham bout nafsu tu yea. nafsu as in like, shopping membazir duit, cuci mata pandang laki hangsome main bola.HAHA. kidding.* anyway,aku rasa aku tergolong dlm golongan org yg wajib berkahwin.actually,i dont care pun pandangan mereka yg cetek about kahwin awal like, 'ish,minah ni dah gatal sgt kot' and mcm mcm lg,clearly that org mcm ni memikirkan that perkahwinan blh memrosak/membantutkan hidup seorang perempuan utk maju/enjoy. well, being legally married to your soulmate is the most happiest moments in your life,for sure. bg aku,melalui perkahwinan yg rela, masing masing ofcourse lah saling bantu membantu for the good of thier relationship kan.about perempuan yg nak maju sgt sgt tu. my ustazah once said that,women cant be more superior than men,for instance,rank at work,salary. bkn nye bermaksud Islam tak bg women maju,but ada sebabnye. women yg terlalu berjaya atau terlalu mengejar pangkat,blh menyebabkan dia kurang memberi perhatian terhadap tanggungjawab dia kpd keluarga.btl kan? blh consider utk kahwin after dah berjaya but how long does it take agaknye sampai dia yg mengejar pangkat tinggi sampai ke tahap yg dia berpuas hati? manusia selalu mahukan yg lebih right. if dah berkahwin pun doesnt mean that tak blh sambung belajar. parents now days patut aware akan perkare ni cause youngster sekarang suke habiskan mase berdating :P kalau anak yg dah cukup umur tu dah jumpe laki yg bertanggungjwb and dah ready nak kahwin tu,ambil lah serious sikit keputusan dia tu. akhirat nanti parents nye jugak dpt share sikit dari dose anak dia. besides, perkahwinan ni ibarat membina sebuah masjid tahu. betape mulia nye?
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- shiela
- DOB 5/6/92. an investment analysis student in UITM Dungun Terengganu. i hate catching up,things are moving too fast nowdays.i'd prefer to live in my own constant world:)
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